Tag: noticing

  • Being Grateful Without the Desire to Possess It

    Being Grateful Without the Desire to Possess It

      Staying grateful through the holidays. A Beautiful Exchange That Inspired Me She complimented me on my earrings. And then she added “they are great on you.” She explained that in many cultures when you compliment something, and seem to be captivated by it, the custom is to give it to them. So she said…

  • Seeing Gifts Everywhere

    Seeing Gifts Everywhere

      So many people shared this video with me I just had to share it with you. Appreciating The Little Gifts What a great video this is to remind us of the gifts we have that surround us every single day. I love his enthusiasm. He has that infectious child-like wonder. My gratitude is more…

  • Every Aspect of Our Lives Is a Vote

    Every Aspect of Our Lives Is a Vote

      How many times today did you vote for the kind of life you want to live in? That Negativity All Around Us Right Now Do you ever find yourself having the same conversation with different people? That happens a lot for me. Most recently it is about the negativity in this election. It’s just…

  • And Then I Learned That I’ve Known Abundance All Along

    And Then I Learned That I’ve Known Abundance All Along

      In a field of tall grass I learned two incredible lessons about abundance. And then as I wrote this I realized that tomorrow I celebrate my 2000th gratitude post! As I wrote this I discovered that tomorrow will be my 2000th gratitude post. I walked into that field and all that grass had grown…

  • Hello, Nice to Meet You, I Am Grateful

    Hello, Nice to Meet You, I Am Grateful

      It’s so easy to talk about what’s got me down but there it is, in abundance, so much to be grateful for. Introduce Yourself With Your Gratitude Today, go over to Our Gratitude and introduce yourself to the group. Instead of a standard introduction introduce yourself through gratitude. Who are you in the world and what…

  • Earthing

    Earthing

      Bare feet on the earth. We connect with nature. We breathe slower. We are grounded.   This Week Let’s All Try This Carve out some alone time in your schedule. Walk outside. Remove your shoes. Stand on the earth. Feel the temperature underfoot. Feel the texture underfoot. Take five slow deep breaths.   Notice.…

  • Problem Solving Without Focusing on the Problem

    Problem Solving Without Focusing on the Problem

      Imagine if you walked through life shining light on things you wanted to see more of.   Shining a Light – What Will You Find? We notice problems at every turn. That is not a problem. Noticing is good. Discernment is a skill. But after we have acknowledged a problem we can switch out…

  • Breaking Out of Fear

    Breaking Out of Fear

    Are you judging, complaining, feeling like there is not enough time and not enough money?   Choosing Love or Choosing Fear Today I was at a strength-based personal transformation training facilitated by Paula Feathers, a Pawnee/Cherokee woman who has dedicated her life to prevention work in New Mexico. She asked two powerful question that gave…

  • Notice ➨ Appreciate ➨ Share

    Notice ➨ Appreciate ➨ Share

      If you don’t notice it, you can’t be grateful for it My gratitude practice is in three parts: Noticing, Appreciating, Sharing. The first step is the most important and the most overlooked step. We can’t be grateful for something we don’t notice. The beautiful thing about noticing is that it’s a habit. The more…

  • Focus on These Three Things

    Focus on These Three Things

      I looked out and saw life in my back yard, lily pads growing over themselves, lilies in full bloom. What do I see when I look inside myself? Do You Give The Gift of Gratitude To Everyone But Yourself? What do you notice? What do you notice in others? What do you notice in…

  • Float with the Flow

    Float with the Flow

      Flowers against my skin, dew transferred and absorbed, flowing with nature, united.   Nature and My Nature I awoke before dawn. The magnificent colors of sunrise precede the actual emergence of the sun by quite a bit here. The sun languidly comes up when it is ready. Before the sun joined us I noticed…

  • Three Slow Exhales with the Ocean

    Three Slow Exhales with the Ocean

      Each breath was slower than the one before until finally I sank into my true relaxed state. My jaw relaxed, my mind cleared, I felt fully immersed in the moment. What a gift.   Three Long and Slow Exhales Sink deep into relaxation starting with three breaths. Exhaling long and slow is the key…

  • Gratitude Sharing Amidst a Storm

    Gratitude Sharing Amidst a Storm

      We sat quietly, taking cover from the desert sun, as the meditation began a storm blew through. The Smell of Onions Unseen. A Healthy Body. The Colorful Mountains. A Safe Place. We gathered. We, who are all about gratitude, sat together. We took cover from the dry desert sun in the shade, cooled by…

  • Mindful Full Moon Solstice

    Mindful Full Moon Solstice

    Mindfulness is not only a meditation technique. It is a deep noticing. It is new possibilities. It is being present. A Mindful Experience Today is a special day, both the summer solstice and a full moon on the same day. What a perfect day to talk about being present and noticing. Imagine if no one…

  • Which Gratitude Is Better?

    Which Gratitude Is Better?

      Is it better to express gratitude to a person you are grateful for or to write down your gratitude experience without directing it to anyone? He Put Me on the Spot I was talking to someone last week, a fellow entrepreneur, about gratitude. I told him about my gratitude practice and the work that…

  • 100 Thank Yous from Judaism to Einstein

    100 Thank Yous from Judaism to Einstein

    If You Said Thank You 100 Times   It is Passover and as my friends shared photos of their Seder it reminded me of a Jewish teaching I heard. It calls for all Jewish people to recite 100 blessings every day. The story behind the tradition is: During the reign of Kind David, there was…

  • The Lure in 5, 4, 3, 2 …

    The Lure in 5, 4, 3, 2 …

      It Grabs Hold of You So seductively it draws you in. It knows that you can’t take your mind off of it. It’s the smart thing to do. It’s the right thing to do. And soon it’s all you think about.   It is the future.   Even in gratitude tomorrow grabs hold. That…

  • His Words Stopped Me in My Tracks

    His Words Stopped Me in My Tracks

      All We Take for Granted   I overslept this morning. I still have not adapted to the time change and my mornings have been challenging. I woke up at 8:30am. Jumped in the shower. Quickly threw on clothes. Got into my car and raced across town arriving with a minute to spare to my…

  • A Practice to Bring You Closer Together

    A Practice to Bring You Closer Together

      Is There Someone You’d Like to Connect With? You know I’m always talking about how important noticing is as a first step to being grateful. That can be true for nature, our work or home, and also for the people we care about. Is there someone you would like to have a deeper connection…

  • Choosing to Rush Through Life

    Choosing to Rush Through Life

      Always on to the next Thing   I have been really busy lately. Working long hours. Working through the weekend. Doing one thing and then another in less time than they need to be done right. But really, how is this different then any other day and any other week? We are all SO…